Recent
publications include two anthologies by Sherman
Asher, New Mexico: Written With a Spoonand
The
XY Files.
I've
also been published in many literary and other magazines, including
LONG
SHOT, THE JOURNAL OF NEW JERSEY POETS, SOUTH TRENTON REVIEW, FROGPOND,
FOOTWORK, PROVINCETOWN MAGAZINE, CIELO AZUL, THE BRIDGE
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From The XY Files
DRESSING MY FATHER
My
father was a natty dresser so choosing a tie for him was tricky.
It
couldn't be too wide, too narrow, too jazzy, too plain.
It
had to say something, but in his voice.
Not
for him the clamor of "power ties" nor
the
bland safety of the retired.
The
shirt-- white, narrow button collar-- had to be sharp, crips,
not
stiff. The handkerchief for the jacket pocket was key:
an
accent most men these days would miss.
It
was funny dressing him, like dressing a bride,
so
much care for clothes worn once then put away.
It
was peculiar enough, never having shopped for men's clothes,
assuming
strangers would assume I was shopping for some husband,
and
those who knew me that I was getting into drag.
Getting,
instead, into my father's humor:
Imagining
running into someone on the Avenue, them asking,
"I
hear you're burying your father?"
Me
replying, "Have to. Dead, you know."
My
father was a natty dresser. We couldn't let him down.
But
there was no sense in dressing Pop too formally.
We
brought his favorite sports jacket, his new charcoal trousers.
Called
for flowers, chose a coffin, handsome, stately yet somewhat
less
dear than Tutankhamun's.
They
laid him out looking "natural" enough,
his
hair swept back in some generic style.
We
combed it back down before company came
gently
crowning his forehead with his silver waves.
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