SUBMISSIVE URINATION A Piddling Solution for a Happier Home-coming Submissive urination is not a conscious nor deliberate act on your puppy's part. It is caused by a complex set of inherited behaviors and conditioned responses. In order to address it successfully you must understand this. Success will be gained through increasing your puppy's self-confidence, and through altering the social response you receive from the pup. 1. The General Environment of Your Relationship It's time to re-evaluate your relationship with your dog. Do this honestly. Do you correct and/or discipline more often than you praise? Do you praise at all? Are you consistent and predictable in your reactions to your dog's behavior? Does your dog know, absolutely, what to expect from you under any given set of circumstances? Is your daily home-coming a scene, variously, of extreme anger, over-reactive jubilation, or disinterested fatigue? The first step in countering submissive urination is to realize that the submissive piddler is a dog with low self-confidence, especially with regard to its relationship with you. There's not necessarily anything wrong with your dog or with your relationship with your dog. Active submission to a leader is a natural response among canines, and in young dogs, this is a way to signal to an adult that there's no threat intended. Submissive urination is part of an active submission display intended to cement the dog's relationship with you. It is overt praise for the returning ruler. Your first job is to reduce the dog's need to reiterate its subordinate position to you in such a dramatic way. Twice a day, morning and night, find ten minutes you weren't using (you can do it! It'll be good for your time management skills in general). Create situations in which the puppy can be praised for doing the right things. Reteach basic commands. Praise immediately, even as the puppy begins to give the correct response. Avoid all correction, and anything which relies on dominance on your part, such as physical repositioning of the dog, or a scolding tone. Learn to use your voice and your body language in positive ways during these sessions. Practice Come, Sit, Stay, and even any simple games your dog enjoys during these sessions. During these Sessions Do: * use your voice lightly and positively * crouch down, make yourself small and non-threatening * pet using your palm up, coming up under the chin, stroking up on the throat and chest * associate the words "good dog" with petting, with feeding, with correct response to commands throughout the day * praise often, gearing the enthusiasm to the pet's response, looking for a happy dog response that falls short of evoking submission * keep homecomings calm, ignoring the puppy for at least 5 minutes if there is any active submission on the puppy's part * keep departures low key as well Don't: * use a scolding tone, or pitch your voice in a low or dominant fashion * hover or lean over the dog in any sort of threatening or domineering fashion * reach down suddenly at the dog's head or shoulders * continue any sort of action which elicits an extreme submissive response from the dog, such as piddling or rolling onto its back 2. Submissive Urination When the sessions above have been practiced for about 2 weeks, you should begin intentionally to address the situations which, in the past, have resulted in submissive urination. Many of you will find that these are nearly exclusively limited to rituals of greeting. When you walk in the door, if your puppy is still urinating and groveling, interrupt the behavior by walking rapidly away from the puppy, calling him calmly, in the same positive voice you've been practicing during your ten minute sessions. By now, your dog is accustomed to praise, and knows what "good dog" means. The dog should be beginning to understand that approval and social acknowledgement of its relative position in the pack can be had without active solicitation. Use your imagination. If simply walking away from the puppy and calling it doesn't interrupt the urination, next time fill your pockets with kibble before you leave in the morning. When you arrive, toss a handful several feet away from the puppy, just as it begins to assume its submissive posture. Use what works for your dog. A handful of toys might work more effectively for some than food. The problem should begin to show improvement with the first week, and should be cleared up entirely within 6 weeks. Conclusion Some Dry Remarks If you have been honest in your evaluation of your dog and your relationship with the animal, and if you have been consistent in your practice sessions, you should begin to see some change in the dog's confidence levels within the first four or five days. Submissive urination during greetings and moments of excitement may require up to six weeks to correct entirely. Remember, the point of these sessions is not to simply alter your dog's social response to you during the training sessions, but to help you become a more consistent and predictable part of your dog's social order. The more your dog can rely on you to be what he expects you to be, the less often he will feel forced to reinforce his position with you. Don't worry that your dog will think you don't love him if you don't fuss over him when you come in the door. If your hands and your voice are gentle, and you spend good solid time with him each day, letting him know what's expected of him in your house, under your rules, and in your eyes, he'll know you love him. Additionally, if your foyer is left dry more often at homecomings, you'll be more certain that you DO love him. Submissive urination and active displays of submission are a natural part of the canine order. In the wild, they help insure survival for the pups in a pack, and don't represent much of a problem. Mother Nature doesn't much care who pees on her carpet. In the domestic dog this response has largely been mitigated, but remains somewhat dramatic in the submissive urinator. Remember, among wild canids, this is natural behavior in juvenile dogs. In domestic canines, this behavior is also often restricted to young animals, and will frequently self-correct as the dog matures. If you are patient and understand that this is not intentional behavior, you can help your dog past this point in his development and enjoy many long years together. Good luck. (please consult Behavior Problems in Dogs, by William E. Campbell. This program is based upon his, and his explanations will help you better understand the source of this problem.)